Family Ties

The weather here reminds me a lot of Virginia during the winter… it can’t make up its mind.. cold.. tease of warm… wind, snow, ice… that tease again and so on. But it’s now just a few days away from Easter, and we’re officially into Primavera (Spring). A front out of Africa is bringing us summer weather for a few days, and then some solid spring weather is forecasted. I’m a happy camper.

Apart from the winter weather, and with it lots of wind, I’ve noticed the colors in town are dark. Everyone is wearing black or dark colors and the town seems somber and chilly. I’m hoping with spring, colors will liven up as folks’ spirits come out of hibernation or maybe it’s Lent that’s being reflected in the somber colors. A change is on the way……the piazza will be filled with sounds of children playing and folks will be seen relaxing in front of the bars and the gelateria.

There is also big change coming for us, as we have signed a contract on a house. We are truly going to do it; become a part of a community, fix up a house into a home, plant olive trees, meet new folks and prayerfully make new and lasting friends. It will be sad to part from our friends around Atri, but we’re not that far away and there will be opportunities to visit.

Views from some of the houses we turned down and possibly from the one we didn’t 😉

The process to close on a house in Italy is a bit more complex than the United States. Well, maybe John and I are just use to the process in the States and that’s why it seems complex here?  It is more expensive to close as more fees are involved for the buyer, such as paying 1/2 of the commission to the broker. My daughter says it’s the same in Chile. There are also some various taxes, registrations fees and the notary’s fees for all the document checks and closing. Here is one of many links explaining the process. And there is the fact that the US dollar is weak right now against the euro and I’m waiting to transfer to our Italian bank, hoping for a better conversion rate.

John and I laugh about the location of the house. We had talked about moving to Italy to find a small house in the warm hills between the sea and the mountains. Well, best laid plans get changed and we’re rolling with it. The town is located in southwestern part of Abruzzo, about 40 minutes from San Salvo, where my mom’s family is from. I definitely plan to do some research to locate any relatives in the area. The house is in the mountains but very similar in elevation to where we lived in Nelson County, VA. The views are expansive over fields, olive groves and up to the higher elevations.  As the paperwork progresses, I’ll give you more information, and eventually before and after pictures with the work we will do. The house is in great condition, but in serious need of updating the cosmetics. House right now is 1970/80s Italian…. heavy on the colors and heavy on dark wood finish.

We plan to take possession mid-June. As our lease on the farmhouse goes to the end of September, we’ll have plenty of time to get the new house ready for us and the dogs. And I am sure the projects will continue for a few years at least. lol

Prior to us even looking at homes close to my mom’s family town, I got started on putting together our family tree. Not something I was ever very interested in doing until  recently. I’m using both Ancestry.com (and Ancestry.it) and FamilySearch.org. This is what I have come up with so far. Family Tree March 2018-1

When I applied for my dual citizenship a few years ago, I started finding out a little bit more about my relatives. Biggest surprise was finding out that my Grandpa Carlo (mom’s dad) didn’t come over on the boat by himself at 13 yo, but rather with his mom and dad and sister! I didn’t even know he had a sister. Mom told me the story about his brave solo crossing and I bought it for years. Silly me. Now I also have found out that my Grandpa had not only a sister, but two older brothers… The plot just gets better and better. A sad discovery was made yesterday in regards to Vitalina, Carlo’s sister. She died at the young age of 24 from the Spanish Influenza in 1918. She was living in the Philadelphia area at that time.

So I’m digging away with the goal of finding out if my grandfather had family that stayed behind in Italy. I recently contacted someone on Facebook with the last name of De Felice from Abruzzo. He was very kind in his replies and said if we are of the De Felice family of Abruzzo, we are  all related! So I’m getting tingly toes in the pursuit of family. I am very excited! Here are some pics from my mom’s side, which she handed down to me. I hope to research dad’s side someday soon and I have loads of pics of his family.

Enjoy and ciao for now…

 

House Hunting can be fun & also a bit crazy…well, it’s Italy..

Decisions can be carried out or not… by acquiring more information, you can change your decisions. Such is our case in regards to a home purchase. When John and I were planning our move from the US to Italy, we talked about renting for a few years, then possibly buying or remaining as renters permanently. We considered renting in one region for a few years, pick up and try another and another every few years, thus experiencing all of Italy.

But reality of our nature awakened us. We really don’t want to be vagabonds or feel like we are on one perpetual vacation. We want to feel a part of a community and build lasting friendships nearby. And there is also the practical side. Finding a house to rent in another area, packing up and move all our stuff, finding new veterinarians for our dogs, registering in a new comune, and so on. Not a happy thought. And another consideration, did we really want to pay monthly rent where our money is never invested? For us, a big NO. We are the type of folks that like to have a home we can make our own and do all our travels from that one navigational point, a beacon to guide us out and back.

So we started our house hunting this winter, with the hope of finding that house that speaks to us…. We’ve had a few stops along the way. We had put a short hold on the viewing as we work through our plan on the financial side. Once that was determined, we set out again on our quest.

buying a house

We came up with a list of requirements: region of Abruzzo closer to the sea rather than the mountains (only because of climate), certain budget, size of house & land, condition of house, etc. John could do some work on the house (mostly cosmetic), but we wanted to move in within a few months and enjoy Italy, with a few small projects in the works. Our price range… well, it’s going to take a lot of tire kicking. Another way to put it, I have to kiss a lot of frogs before I find my prince. There are a lot of homes on the market in Italy, anywhere from ruins to be torn down, complete restorations, habitable townhouses, independent country houses, villas and beyond. We are definitely on the economical side of this spectrum, which then opens up a number of possibilities related to buying low, doing a lot of work, or buying a bit higher in the hopes we will do less work….Do we want to get caught up in a project that gets out of hand, and not spend our time enjoying Italy?

Interesting and downright bizarre story during this house hunting process…We located a house a few weeks back in southern Abruzzo that fit all our criteria and we put an offer on it. The owner had just recently lowered the price, because he wanted to get it sold sooner than not. What transpires next transported us into a soap opera or perhaps an episode of the Sopranos. Lots of hand ringing, crying, anger, non-communication, nonsensical demands all on their side. Well a bit of frustration and anger on our side, but a lot of WHAT JUST HAPPENED! The offer was refused and it looks like the owner is taking the house off the market for now. I’m not going to go into greater detail, but what came back to us was that it wasn’t to the owner’s best financial interest, at the immediate time our offer was made, to sell to anyone. Interesting…disappointing for us, but we’ve moved on. And now a bit wiser and more alert. 😉

Our friend (and property manager), Luigi, took us around today to show us a few properties of interest in our area of Treciminiere. All had wonderful views of sea and mountains, but pricing is very sea-proximity related here.  With that in mind, we will continue to search judiciously in this area as well as in the more economical southern part of this region. I’ll keep you posted when I kiss that prince.

Not only does Spring make for good house hunting weather, it also gets us outdoors to enjoy the countryside. Time to shake off that winter sluggishness and those heat-insulating kilos I’ve put on! We’ve taken to trekking the farm roads again (fields still too muddy) as well as cycling. We’re exploring the bike path up and down the coastline, as we get back into shape. To see the Adriatic and the Gran Sasso mountains to either side of us, as we cycle, NEVER gets old. Beach debris is being raked up and lido owners are preparing their beach facilities for opening next month. I’m sure the beaches will be packed this summer, so we’ll enjoy the bike path now without the crowds.

 

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I hope you enjoyed the pics today and ciao for now….

gran sasso march

The Gran Sasso in spring